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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:38

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

A kid threw a stone at my car. I confronted his mom (who was nearby). She said, "You can't prove it was my son." How should I have reacted?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why don’t Jews regard Jesus as an important teacher or rabbi, if not the Messiah? Putting aside messianic claims, wouldn’t Jesus be one of the most significant Jewish teachers in human history?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Can I use the LEG PRESS to build muscle?

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How would you feel about your husband allowing a mutual friend to see you naked and exposed to show off your pussy?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How could NASA possibly land on the moon when it's impossible to reach the moon through the Earth's dome? Why are they making up such an obvious lie?

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why do Muslims not get HIV/AIDS in spite of having 4 wives and multiple relationships?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has anyone ever really waited that long and gotten a paper check mailed 20 days ago?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

Which type of physical cable has fastest transmission speed?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can you recommend a simple song with an awesome solo? What makes the solo stand out?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.